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How to stop comparing oneself with others?

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I'm wondering how Buddhism deals with the comparison of oneself with others, and I'm specifically thinking in terms of accomplishments. For example, I have usually had some success in art fields in my life. I now am in a setting where many people have similar, or greater talent. I can't help but compare myself to them, and this causes suffering. Similarly, I tend to compare myself to others generally, in many ways. I am aware it is bad to do so, but I cannot help myself in engaging in that process. Is there any way to make the comparisons cease? What does Buddhism teach about this? If comparing is conceit, many of the answers to [How are 'conceit' and 'identity-view' not the same?](https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/q/9415/254) seem to advocate merely watching mindfully the arising and passing away of the aggregates to extinguish conceit. Would this be the recognized ways of diminishing the presence of conceit? If any practice could be recommended it would be much appreciated. Thank you for any reply.
Asked by user7302
Oct 4, 2017, 01:03 AM
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