On what the Prophet SAW loved

Assalamualaikum can anyone help refute an allegation that the Prophet SAW was "pleasure-seeking" (nauzubillah). There's a polemic going on that the Prophet's SAW marriages with the Mothers of the Believers weren't anything but "self-serving" and "ignoble" (astaghfirullah). This claim is allegedly backed up by the narrations below : >Volume 1, Parts II.90.1 > >Affan Ibn Muslim informed us: Abu al-Mundhir informed us on the authority of Thabit, he on the authority of Anas, he on the authority of the Prophet, may Allah bless him; he said: From mundane objects women and perfumes have been made pleasing to me and prayer (i.e., al-salat). > >Volume 1, Parts II.90.2 Musa Ibn Isma’il informed us: Abu Bishr Sahib al-Basri informed us on the authority of Yunus, he on the authority of al-Hasan; he said: The Apostle of Allah, may Allah bless him, said: I like not from worldly life but perfumes and women. > >Volume 1, Parts II.90.3 ‘Abd Allah Ibn Ja v far al-Raqqi informed us: Abu al-Mulayh informed us on the authority of Maymun; he said: The Apostle of Allah, may Allah bless him, did not receive from wordly luxuries except perfume and women. > >Volume 1, Parts II.90.5 Al-Fadl Ibn Dukayn informed us: Musa Ibn Qays al-Hadrami informed us on the authority of Salamah Ibn Kuhayl; he said: The Apostle of Allah, may Allah bless him, did not obtain any thing from wordly objects dearer to him than women and perfumes. > >Volume 1, Parts II.90.6 ‘Affan Ibn Muslim informed us: Abu Hilal informed us on the authority of Qatadah, he on the authority of Ma’qil Ibn Yasar; he said: Nothing was dearer to the Prophet of Allah, may Allah bless him, than a horse. Then he said: O Allah ! excuse me, nay ! the women. > >Volume 1, Parts II.90.4 Al-Fadl Ibn Dukayn informed us; Isra’il informed us on the authority of Abu Ishaq, he on the authority of a person who related on the authority of v Ayishah she said: The Prophet of Allah, may peace be on him, liked three worldly objects- perfume, women and food. He obtained two and did not obtain one. He obtained women and perfumes but did not get food. And.... >Volume 1, Parts 11.77. 1 > >'Ubayd Allah Ibn Musa informed us on the authority of Usamah Ibn Zayd, he on the authority of Safwan Ibn Sulaym, he said: The Apostle of Allah, may Allah bless him, said: Gabriel brought a kettle from which I ate and I was given the power of sexual intercourse equal to forty men. > >Volume 1, Parts II.77.2 > >Abu Ghassan Malik Ibn Isma'il informed us: Isra'il informed us on the authority of Layth, he on the authority of Mujahid; he said: The Apostle of Allah, may Allah bless him, was given the power equal to that of forty men and the people of paradise will be given the power equal to eighty men. > >Volume 1, Parts II.77.3 > >Muhammad Ibn 'Abd Allah al-Asadi and Qabisah Ibn 'Uqbah informed us; they said: Sufyan informed us on the authority of Ma'mar, he on the authority of Tawas; he said: The Prophet, may Allah bless him, was granted the power of sexual intercourse equal to that of forty men. I need help.