Does avoiding a person mean I have not truly forgiven them?
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This individual has been belligerent in the past causing a lot of grief to myself. I've felt a great deal of animosity towards this individual in the past but after some time forgave them.
The forgiveness felt cleansing, but I still avoid contact. I feel that the spirit of forgiveness should be like starting from a *tabula rasa* but am concerned about a repetition of the past.
How should I react according to the precepts of Buddhism ? I feel that if I avoid the person, I have not truly forgiven them in my heart.
Asked by jmagunia
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Jul 24, 2014, 03:28 PM
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