People get sick and die next to me - my karma?

If people i care about get sick a lot and die a lot - is it part of my karma to experience this ? is there a name for this type of karma ? anything that can be added on this subject will be appreciated Now my grandfather is in the hospital - so its his bad karma to be there - but is it also part of my karma cause i suffer from him being there (and yes i dont have to suffer from it and can use it as even a good thing but its not my question)